Buck My Life!

There are a lot of different ways to meet women. Yet, most guys ONLY use places like bars & clubs. The truth is the BEST chance to really meet a woman is OUTSIDE
a loud, noisy venue.

To skyrocket your success with women, you need to be ready to meet women at any point in your day.

I’ve found that it’s actually easier to meet a girl when you’re out during the daytime.

In fact this can be your SECRET WEAPON for meeting women. One that your friends will wonder how you’re “getting” all these girls.

Now I want to be honest here. “Day Game” requires a different style than what’s commonly used in the bar scene.

It’s a great way to meet women. But if you’re using the same tactics you’d use in a noisy club, you’ll come across as a crazy person.

To help you get started with daytime meet-ups, I recommend following these 6 tips.

Tip 1 – Look Your Best

To make day game work, you MUST look your best…at ALL times.

Remember, you never know when you’ll come across a women you want to approach. If look like a slob, then you’ll give off a sloppy appearance.

You should always look sharp if you want to meet women during the daytime.

This means adhering to basic guidelines for a top-notched appearance (i.e.: Shave, shower, apply cologne wear nice clothes, etc.)

Tip 2 – Talk To Everyone

We’re all guilty of going “autopilot” as we run errands and do stuff during the day.

For many it’s not the “time” when we meet women. They’re doing chores and don’t want to think about approaching a random girl.

So it seems weird to walk up to a woman during the daytime and start a conversation.

Unfortunately this attitude will get you NOWHERE.

To improve your day game, you must get into the habit of initiating conversations with those around you. (Even if they’re not women)

The more you practice talking to people, the more natural it’ll seem to approach a girl.

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Today, I will like to cover how to isolate your target from her friends. After you have approached a group of girls and established enough rapport, you need to separate your target from her friends so that you can proceed on your routines on her privately. It also gives her more private space and she will be less conscious of her surroundings when her friends are not around.

The goal of any approach or opener is to get you into a conversation with a group. As long as you demonstrate high status and spiking up an interesting discussion, then you’ll find that most groups will accept you.

But you have to remember that the goal of your approach is to attract a specific woman. If you’re simply talking to the group the whole night, then you’ll minimize your chances of attracting your target.

Whenever you approach a group, you should focus on separating her from her friends. Then once she’s alone you can work on building more attraction and comfort.

The process of isolation is actually fairly simple. First you want to look for genuine signs of attraction. If you don’t see any indicators of interest (IOIs), then you should make a decision. You can either switch your focus to another woman or cut the conversation short and move on.

Now if you notice that you’re target is showing signals, then you know that she is open to being isolated. At this point, you want to direct your attention to her and start building more direct attraction. By now her friends will pick up on the fact you are developing a one-on-one conversation.

When this becomes obvious, say to your target:

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Approach anxiety has been a real problem to many guys. Whenever we see a hot girl we like or a business deal we want to close, we have this anxiety which holds us back. We’ve all had that terrifying fear of walking up to women and initiating a conversation.

The truth is these anxious feelings can be traced back to early human development. Back then, there was danger in approaching women. If you talked to a female who was attached to another man, you could get smacked over the head with a club.

As you can see, approach anxiety is a normal feeling that we all get.

But the question to ask yourself is,”should you let it control you?”

The answer is NO!

Although approach anxiety is common, you should not let it dominate you. You need to overcome them. Remember the best pick up artists (PUAs) in the world are the guys who overcame these feelings.

Now if you want to overcome your own anxious feelings, then you should follow the same technique which I used eliminate approach anxiety, which is to…

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As you know from the previous part, I was alone with Ziyi and I was almost closing it. That was when Avril came back.
‘ Did you kiss him while I was away?’ Avril asked.

‘ Are you jealous?’ I asked.

‘Well…’ Avril stuttered.
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I had just visited a friend in Boston for business and missed the train back to New York. I was walking around the pubs and was trying to kill some time before deciding what to do.

I walked into a pub and took out my book to read. I probably looked a bit like some intellectual and I was sipping on a vodka cocktail as I was sitting at a corner of the busy pub.
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