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Challenge: Sarging and cold approaching

by dickcruise on Jul.25, 2010, under Inner Game, Routines, Tips from the great

a97Set yourself a challenge, speak to as many strangers as possible whenever you’re outside, it does not matter whether you are in a shopping centre or in a restaurant etc. I feel this is important activity to conduct at least once every few months so you become in the habit of interacting with people in general as well as with the opposite sex. I believe that the more one interacts with strangers from different cultures, backgrounds, social classes, genders etc you will become comfortable around someone that you wouldn’t normally socialise with, think of this challenge as practice for interacting to a hot babe (HB).
To make it easier, do not pressure yourself to approach as you do not want to develop an anxiety and you do not have to approach every single girl you see, just wait for when the opportunity arises or when you can manipulate an opportunity to approach, the girl does not have to be smoking hot we are only trying to build confidence so its the interaction that counts not her looks, weight or age and remember that you do not need to get the targets phone number every time.

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Use jealously as a weapon

by dickcruise on Jul.18, 2010, under Inner Game, Tips from the great

a98Women a jealous creatures and it can be manipulated in to help you. Have you ever noticed that when you’re in a relationship you get more attention from “female friends” or “available women” but when you are single they do not give you the time of day? This is because females are competitive, they are innately seek-out the strongest guy that everybody wants and when you’ve got a girlfriend they see you as strong and popular. This is why its important to unofficially date multiple women simultaneously, they will literally fight to seek your attention and hence increases your social status.

 

Always remember this if you want to buck your life!

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How to ask her out?

by dickcruise on Jul.03, 2010, under Tips from the great

a95Asking a girl straight out rarely works, usually you’ll get a stupid excuse such as “I want to focus on my studies or work” or “I like you as a friend” or “I don’t want to mess up our friendships”. The more informal the better, so rather ask her to do something fun such as dancing, cinema etc. It should be done in a way which doesn’t have the burden of being a date, the idea is to gradually and naturally have un-official dates with the same concepts as a official date.

If she says “NO”, then you can recover by saying something like “we are only friends why don’t you want to come cinema with me, you are acting like I asked you as a date. friends go cinema with each other!” The idea is to have a failsafe or contingency plan, if she rejects your offer you can recover by explicitly reminding her “its not technically a date”. This will make her wander why you don’t want to date her and hence she will try to seek your approval.

Another quick tip to help you buck your life!

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Eliminating nerves during approaches

by dickcruise on Jun.16, 2010, under Inner Game, Openers, Tips from the great

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If you see a girl you like, and think of her as a stranger, this triggers a slew of defense mechanisms designed by evolution to keep you ’socially safe’. They are also effective at preventing nerves, so you want to avoid them. HERE is a exercise of 3 easy practical steps to seeing girls differently in the future, thus not triggering those reactions.

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Understanding the 5 levels

by dickcruise on May.31, 2010, under Inner Game, Tips from the great

TeVFKhGE3RWe`ve discovered that there are five levels of seducers. It`s important to know which level you are operating from, so you can assess yourself and move forward to buck your life. Many men think they are operating at a higher level than they are. Once you can be honest about where you operate from, you can begin to make changes. Here, I present to you the 5 levels

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3 day rule

by dickcruise on May.23, 2010, under Tips from the great

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There is a myth that you need to wait three days before calling a girl as a method of not acting too keen. Bullshit! – As an alpha male take charge of the situation and call when you feel it is necessary regardless of the any stupid “3 day rule”. Just keep the conversation brief and straight to the point 5-15mins maximum. Ideally the conversation should be just be long enough to build attraction and set up a date, any idle chit chat is a waste of your time, save the chit chat for when you meet for the date.

Get ready to buck your life with this quick tip!

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The Art of Physical Escalation

by edisonng on May.15, 2010, under Skills, Tips from the great

flirtingPhysical escalation is composed of a series of stages. You need to complete each stage first before you can advance to the other stage. Now you should understand why some girls say guys are perverts or too ‘touchy’. If they know how to escalate it in stages, it will never result in these sorts of complaints.

Each advance needs to be evaluated for its results before making another advance. Physical escalation is also a form of experimental tests to see how your partner is receiving your body communication. Each escalation can result in a:

Collapse – Partner becomes frigid and cold. A complete shut-out. No further kino is accepted.

Contraction – Kino acceptation is reduced to the lower level, but is still repairable.

Maintenance – Kino level is maintained. Attraction is neither lost nor gained.

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6 Tips to Meet Girls in Daytime

by edisonng on May.03, 2010, under Tips from the great

2w7is9iThere are a lot of different ways to meet women. Yet, most guys ONLY use places like bars & clubs. The truth is the BEST chance to really meet a woman is OUTSIDE
a loud, noisy venue.

To skyrocket your success with women, you need to be ready to meet women at any point in your day.

I’ve found that it’s actually easier to meet a girl when you’re out during the daytime.

In fact this can be your SECRET WEAPON for meeting women. One that your friends will wonder how you’re “getting” all these girls.

Now I want to be honest here. “Day Game” requires a different style than what’s commonly used in the bar scene.

It’s a great way to meet women. But if you’re using the same tactics you’d use in a noisy club, you’ll come across as a crazy person.

To help you get started with daytime meet-ups, I recommend following these 6 tips.

Tip 1 – Look Your Best

To make day game work, you MUST look your best…at ALL times.

Remember, you never know when you’ll come across a women you want to approach. If look like a slob, then you’ll give off a sloppy appearance.

You should always look sharp if you want to meet women during the daytime.

This means adhering to basic guidelines for a top-notched appearance (i.e.: Shave, shower, apply cologne wear nice clothes, etc.)

Tip 2 – Talk To Everyone

We’re all guilty of going “autopilot” as we run errands and do stuff during the day.

For many it’s not the “time” when we meet women. They’re doing chores and don’t want to think about approaching a random girl.

So it seems weird to walk up to a woman during the daytime and start a conversation.

Unfortunately this attitude will get you NOWHERE.

To improve your day game, you must get into the habit of initiating conversations with those around you. (Even if they’re not women)

The more you practice talking to people, the more natural it’ll seem to approach a girl.

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Isolating your Target

by edisonng on Apr.21, 2010, under Tips from the great

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Today, I will like to cover how to isolate your target from her friends. After you have approached a group of girls and established enough rapport, you need to separate your target from her friends so that you can proceed on your routines on her privately. It also gives her more private space and she will be less conscious of her surroundings when her friends are not around.

The goal of any approach or opener is to get you into a conversation with a group. As long as you demonstrate high status and spiking up an interesting discussion, then you’ll find that most groups will accept you.

But you have to remember that the goal of your approach is to attract a specific woman. If you’re simply talking to the group the whole night, then you’ll minimize your chances of attracting your target.

Whenever you approach a group, you should focus on separating her from her friends. Then once she’s alone you can work on building more attraction and comfort.

The process of isolation is actually fairly simple. First you want to look for genuine signs of attraction. If you don’t see any indicators of interest (IOIs), then you should make a decision. You can either switch your focus to another woman or cut the conversation short and move on.

Now if you notice that you’re target is showing signals, then you know that she is open to being isolated. At this point, you want to direct your attention to her and start building more direct attraction. By now her friends will pick up on the fact you are developing a one-on-one conversation.

When this becomes obvious, say to your target:

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The Seductive Way of Teasing

by edisonng on Apr.17, 2010, under Tips from the great

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Today, I am going to uncover a great way to tease girls. But many guys I have seen did it wrongly and they ended up making the girl angry instead of horny.

In essence, you want to tease and make fun of a girl. But you have to do it in a way that makes her laugh and want to know more about you. The WRONG way to do is to make her pissed off and made her feel that you are a jerk!

Most guys get teasing wrong because they think it involves ridiculing a girl. They think they’re building attraction by making fun of such things as her looks, or other traits that she might be sensitive about. Unfortunately this type of behavior only ends up pissing off most women.

My advice for teasing is simple. Made your teasing in such a way that she is TRYING TO GET YOU. Make your teasing revolves around that area. Your teasing is done to trip her up and call out the behavior she’s doing to get you, instead of the other way round.

The way you can do this is to steal some of the lines traditionally used by women. For instance, you say something like “You’re trying to take advantage of me,” or “You just want me for my body” whenever she does something to you. Whenever she touches your arm, be it accidentally or with intentions, say something like, “Stop molesting me!” (continue reading…)

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