Buck My Life!

1. Don’t over use filler words like ummmmmmmm, ahhhh, soooooooooo, If you can’t think of anything, don’t say it. If you think of something, just say it.

2. Don’t reply with overly rehearsed answer’s.

3. Shit test: If she asks“Were did u get that silly hair” u say “Same place u got those funny looking shoes.”

4. Never wait for her. If she says ’I’m going to the bathroom wait here” you say “I’m goin to the Bar to grab a drink”

5. Do not show positive body language too early.

6. Don’t fidget (Remember body language is 60% of communication)

7. Don’t supplicate (So don’t be buying drinks except if in rapport)

8. Do not chase for the ‘kill’ too early.

9. Do not brag unnecessarily.

10. Do not lean in your body towards her.

Physical escalation is composed of a series of stages. You need to complete each stage first before you can advance to the other stage. Now you should understand why some girls say guys are perverts or too ‘touchy’. If they know how to escalate it in stages, it will never result in these sorts of complaints.

Each advance needs to be evaluated for its results before making another advance. Physical escalation is also a form of experimental tests to see how your partner is receiving your body communication. Each escalation can result in a:

Collapse – Partner becomes frigid and cold. A complete shut-out. No further kino is accepted.

Contraction – Kino acceptation is reduced to the lower level, but is still repairable.

Maintenance – Kino level is maintained. Attraction is neither lost nor gained.

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God is fair most of us are endowed with all 5 sense, our sight, touch, smell, hearing and taste. In some circumstances when one of our 5 sense fail, the other of our remaining senses will improve over time with use to reinforce our perception the environment.

Running the Jazz club many years I have came to realise that God is indeed more than just fair. Not only do we have 5 senses we do have the ability to develop senses outside of the 5 given to us. These sense each though not physical senses, but more of a way of perception, when developed to a heightened level would each in itself give us an added advantage over the rest of our counter parts in that specific field that this sense is most suited for.

One night when talking to John over some whiskey, he described to me what is known as the money sense. This is a very very important sense that one must horn to a heighten level should one attempt at money making that is out of the regular method (the stable wage lifestyle)

A person with a heightened money sense will first and foremost observe the potential rate of returns when presented with an opportunity.

Here is a schematic overview that one such individual goes through when analyzing an opportunity.

1. What is the initial capital outlay required?
2. What is the maximum potential returns?
3. What is the maximum potent loses?
4. What are the alternatives available?
5. If there are alternatives available, what are the alternative capital outlay required, their maximum potential return and loses?
6. How much percentage of your total asset is require for commitment to this venture?
7. Is this opportunity subjected to upward black swan effect or downwards black swan effect?

The best choice would be one that requires smaller amounts of capital for the most level of maximum potential returns and least level of potential losses while at the same time be subjected to upwards black swan effect.

Sticking wising to this schematic framework will further help us buck my life