Buck My Life!

Set yourself a challenge, speak to as many strangers as possible whenever you’re outside, it does not matter whether you are in a shopping centre or in a restaurant etc. I feel this is important activity to conduct at least once every few months so you become in the habit of interacting with people in general as well as with the opposite sex. I believe that the more one interacts with strangers from different cultures, backgrounds, social classes, genders etc you will become comfortable around someone that you wouldn’t normally socialise with, think of this challenge as practice for interacting to a hot babe (HB).
To make it easier, do not pressure yourself to approach as you do not want to develop an anxiety and you do not have to approach every single girl you see, just wait for when the opportunity arises or when you can manipulate an opportunity to approach, the girl does not have to be smoking hot we are only trying to build confidence so its the interaction that counts not her looks, weight or age and remember that you do not need to get the targets phone number every time.

Women a jealous creatures and it can be manipulated in to help you. Have you ever noticed that when you’re in a relationship you get more attention from “female friends” or “available women” but when you are single they do not give you the time of day? This is because females are competitive, they are innately seek-out the strongest guy that everybody wants and when you’ve got a girlfriend they see you as strong and popular. This is why its important to unofficially date multiple women simultaneously, they will literally fight to seek your attention and hence increases your social status.

Always remember this if you want to buck your life!

We`ve discovered that there are five levels of seducers. It`s important to know which level you are operating from, so you can assess yourself and move forward to buck your life. Many men think they are operating at a higher level than they are. Once you can be honest about where you operate from, you can begin to make changes. Here, I present to you the 5 levels

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1. Don’t over use filler words like ummmmmmmm, ahhhh, soooooooooo, If you can’t think of anything, don’t say it. If you think of something, just say it.

2. Don’t reply with overly rehearsed answer’s.

3. Shit test: If she asks“Were did u get that silly hair” u say “Same place u got those funny looking shoes.”

4. Never wait for her. If she says ’I’m going to the bathroom wait here” you say “I’m goin to the Bar to grab a drink”

5. Do not show positive body language too early.

6. Don’t fidget (Remember body language is 60% of communication)

7. Don’t supplicate (So don’t be buying drinks except if in rapport)

8. Do not chase for the ‘kill’ too early.

9. Do not brag unnecessarily.

10. Do not lean in your body towards her.

I sat the evening at the bar lounge watching the crowd of patrons to my jazz lounge. On occasions i would take a sip from my glass of red wine. The red wine tasted rich, a light scent of oak lingered long after each sip. It was just the way I like it.

Thinking back, it seemed surreal that I am here now, sipping my wine while listening to jazz, and not somewhere else. This has been the lifestyle that I dreamed of to have someday and now it is all real. Fate could have dealt me another set of cards and I could have been anywhere else except here right this moment.

Perhaps she did, in another time and space. Perhaps in that parallel universe, there was indeed another me that is now sitting, hopeless and homeless in the corner of some anonymous streets with nowhere to go and no one to turn to. I shivered at the thought of that. I took another sip of red wine and shrugged off this fear. It could not been too far a possiblity.

My childhood was a turbulant one, ever since the death of both my parents in the car accidant. Live since then had been a blur, like a metaphoric cosmic whirlwind that hurled me through time and space allowing me neither sense of security nor control.

How then did I survive this metaphoric roller coaster ride through all these years, all these doubts, fears and uncertainties?

Try as we might as a race to look into the future to discern the mysteries, yet unravelled, we fail time and time again and on occasions miserably. The human race just can’t predict and will forever remain so. Clairovoyance will forever remain in the realms of God. What then are we left with, if without the ability to predict. How then, did we, blind as a race, managed to move forward thus far as we did to where we are today?

Seeking deep within my heart I guess this was how. We are here we are today because some amongst us left their doubts, fears and uncertainties with God along with the need for clairovoyance and ventured forth bravely in pursuit their’s dreams backed by almost nothing but faith and a desire to see their visions come to fruition.