With this trait, you want to be the guy who she never fully understands. Nor are you someone who behaves in a predictable, boring manner.

To apply this technique, you want subtly maintain that distance, while not being an asshole about it.

There’s a very well-known economic theory called the Law of Scarcity. Put simply, a good’s value increases as its availability decreases. This same principle is easily applied to romance, as it is only human nature to want something you cannot have.

While you want to maintain a certain level of mystery with a girl, don’t use it to take advantage of insecurity. Controlling or hurting a person is never right, and it very often comes back to haunt you.

By being mysterious, you’re merely showing that you have options and could walk away at any time.

To maintain a level of mystery while in conversation, do not rush to reveal all the qualities about yourself. The idea is to make her work to find out more about you. Sometimes you can create attraction by not saying something and maintain that hint of mystery.

While you previously learned the importance of selling yourself to a woman, it’s also important to know the value of modesty. Instead of giving her a crash course in all of your accomplishments, discuss your life in vague terms, and let her fill in the blanks.

Don’t be too candid about how you spend your time. Direct the conversation by asking the questions, making the statements, and discussing the things that you want brought up.

Don’t pick up the phone every time she calls, and wait a while before calling her back. Have other priorities in your life, that way (when she wants to go out) you have options and other obligations.

In addition, never reveal something about yourself that may make the woman disqualify you. Tell stories about yourself solely for the purpose of revealing your personality, nothing more.

Finally it’s pretty easy to tell when you’re the embodiment of this principle. If you find that a woman is asking you a bunch of questions about your background, then you know she’s trying
hard to find out what makes you tick.

So answer some of her questions, but don’t be too quick to detail everything you’ve done in your life.

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Sarging is about selling yourself. That is why great salesmen and PUAs are interlinked. Remember that women are looking for a potential mating partner, so you have to demonstrate your positive qualities and believe in what you’re selling…that is YOU.

It’s no secret that the best salesmen in the world are the ones who believe in their product 100 percent.

This all boils down to their affirmation, or belief, in what they’re selling, and that’s why it’s important to believe in yourself. Doing so will make it easier to convey the positive
qualities you have to offer women.

Knowing how to sell yourself helps you display the high social status that women find irresistible.

But what is social status?

As I previously mentioned, in the animal kingdom, a man’s values are based on his status within a social context. The more valuable you present yourself, the more you’ll display a naturally-attractive exterior.

What’s interesting is that while a woman’s looks are generally most important to a man, and a man’s ’social value’ is generally the most attractive quality to women.

This goes beyond what you do for a living. Even if you have the crappiest job in the world, you can still be attractive to women if you know how to trigger her attraction switches.

By displaying a naturally-attractive personality when you first meet a woman, you’ll be able to transcend any minor drawbacks that you have going for you.

So how do you sell yourself?

Well this comes down to a number of things:

It can be the way you dress, you talk and how other people treat you. The way you treat her also speak volumes about your social status. If she is not that into you, don’t pamper her like a princess. It degrades your social status.

Just remember one basic rule…

In order to be attractive to women, you must demonstrate higher social status then her.

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This means that you be the one to take the initiative. Be the one to ask her out. Make the first move. And act like a man who is not afraid to take things to the next level.

Besides being the one responsible for progressing the relationship, a man also has to put effort into keeping it alive. One of the harsh realities of dating is that women get bored…
really quickly.

If you’re not providing a fun, exciting experience, then you run the risk of forcing her to find a guy who will!

A lot of times, women will settle when it comes time to pick a romantic partner. Usually, this comes from a fear of being alone or not finding a comfortable relationship.

The problem is, while they’re in a stable situation, most women secretly yearn for the guy who can provide them with a bit of excitement. Someone who acts like a “leader of men.”

Women want a guy who is not afraid to take action. This is a quality that stems from the way we evolved as human beings.

The “leaders of men” were often the most sexually desirable. When a woman would select a mating partner, she would inevitably gravitate towards the guys who were a cut above the rest… the leaders.

So what draws a woman to a leader of a group?

Most of the time, this type of guy wasn’t the smartest, best looking, or even the toughest, but the leader did have one quality…

He could control the actions of other men.

So how do you display the leadership quality?

The best way to demonstrate this trait is through your actions. With women, you can’t tell them that you’re a leader – you have to show it through the things that you do.

First off, this quality is illustrated clearly through the way you make decisions. Whereas the inferior male waffles in his choices, the Leader in charge is decisive.
He’s able to quickly access a situation and make an instant decision. In order to “stand out from the crowd,” you should make decisive choices and have the confidence to stick by them.

Another way to show leadership is through the way you handle social interactions. The leader is somebody who can control a conversation, but ensures that everyone is included.

Furthermore, a guy like this is somebody who enjoys planning an activity or taking charge of an event. Instead of allowing others to make decisions, the leader is the one who everyone looks to for good times or excitement. In essence, he’s the focal point of any interaction!

Finally, you can identify a leader by his body language. In a social interaction, he’s somebody who:

Makes strong eye contact with everyone

Is the center of a conversation

Moves at the front of the pack as a group travels

Seems relaxed and casual

Tells interesting stories that captivate everyone’s attention

As you can see, there are a lot of qualities and traits that capture the essence of a leader. The important thing to remember is that you should always be the person who is in charge of your
social circle.

Don’t rely on others to take charge. Instead, be the guy who everyone looks to for an exciting experience.

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Each advance needs to be evaluated for its results before making another advance. Physical escalation is also a form of experimental tests to see how your partner is receiving your body communication. Each escalation can result in a:

Collapse – Partner becomes frigid and cold. A complete shut-out. No further kino is accepted.

Contraction – Kino acceptation is reduced to the lower level, but is still repairable.

Maintenance – Kino level is maintained. Attraction is neither lost nor gained.

Expansion – Kino is accepted. Your partner will now accept the next higher level of Kino.

Acceleration – There is a kino explosion. Every form of Kino is accepted and encouraged. Congratulations!

When there is acceleration, match and rise immediately. For example, if she puts your hand on her tits while still wearing her shirt, it means that you are moving too slowly, so make your next move. In this case, you might want to stick your hands down the back of her pants to rub her ass.

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To skyrocket your success with women, you need to be ready to meet women at any point in your day.

I’ve found that it’s actually easier to meet a girl when you’re out during the daytime.

In fact this can be your SECRET WEAPON for meeting women. One that your friends will wonder how you’re “getting” all these girls.

Now I want to be honest here. “Day Game” requires a different style than what’s commonly used in the bar scene.

It’s a great way to meet women. But if you’re using the same tactics you’d use in a noisy club, you’ll come across as a crazy person.

To help you get started with daytime meet-ups, I recommend following these 6 tips.

Tip 1 – Look Your Best

To make day game work, you MUST look your best…at ALL times.

Remember, you never know when you’ll come across a women you want to approach. If look like a slob, then you’ll give off a sloppy appearance.

You should always look sharp if you want to meet women during the daytime.

This means adhering to basic guidelines for a top-notched appearance (i.e.: Shave, shower, apply cologne wear nice clothes, etc.)

Tip 2 – Talk To Everyone

We’re all guilty of going “autopilot” as we run errands and do stuff during the day.

For many it’s not the “time” when we meet women. They’re doing chores and don’t want to think about approaching a random girl.

So it seems weird to walk up to a woman during the daytime and start a conversation.

Unfortunately this attitude will get you NOWHERE.

To improve your day game, you must get into the habit of initiating conversations with those around you. (Even if they’re not women)

The more you practice talking to people, the more natural it’ll seem to approach a girl.

Tip 3 -  Have A Hang-out Place
Too many guys have the “One Night Stand” mentality. They only concern themselves with how to ‘get laid’ within the first few hours of meeting a woman.

To have success with Day Game, you should give up the idea that you can “speed seduce” a girl the same day you meet her. Sure it can happen. But it’s pretty rare.

With that being said, you can easily meet a girl and move the conversation to place where you can get to know one another.

What I suggest is simple…

When you’re out during the day, find a place where you can have a quick “mini-date.”

This could be a coffee house, shopping at a mall, or even a trip to a park.

My point is this: You want a place where you can immediately go and continue the
conversation. By pre-planning a location, you’ll make it seem like a normal part of your daytime activities.

Tip 4 – Show High Status

Even when you’re outside the “singles scene”, it’s still important to demonstrate a high status personality.

To be attractive to a woman, she has to see that you’re a confident guy who can naturally attract women. She should feel like you’re a guy who has a busy life, filled with interesting
things.

So if you’re not comfortable with your confidence, then I recommend you learn why women are attracted to guys who can show this side of their personality.

Tip 5 – Be An Interesting Guy

Again, this is another rule which applies in ANY environment. To build attraction, you must show that you’re a genuinely fun guy.

This means IMMEDIATELY showcasing a personality which she’ll like. For instance, you should:

- Tell fun stories about your life
- Use humor in a funny but teasing manner
- Make interesting comments about her
- Ask her provocative questions.

The more interesting you appear, the more she’ll be into YOU!

Tip 6 – Establish Physical Contact

The final rule is absolutely important for making a “connection” with a woman…

If you want to be interesting to woman, you must CREATE sexual chemistry.

And one of the quickest ways to do this is to establish physical contact.

Within 5 minutes of initiating a conversation, you should be touching her a fun, familiar manner. This can include giving high-fives, handshakes, or using humorous body language routines.

The key here is to do it in a FUN way. So don’t act like a creepy pervert that likes to grope women.

Just remember that it’s often easier to meet women during the day. If you keep your eyes open and know how to take advantage of hidden opportunities, then you’ll discover that it’s easy to pick up women.

Simply implement the six tips I just listed and you’ll successfully meet LOTS of women during the daytime.

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Today, I will like to cover how to isolate your target from her friends. After you have approached a group of girls and established enough rapport, you need to separate your target from her friends so that you can proceed on your routines on her privately. It also gives her more private space and she will be less conscious of her surroundings when her friends are not around.

The goal of any approach or opener is to get you into a conversation with a group. As long as you demonstrate high status and spiking up an interesting discussion, then you’ll find that most groups will accept you.

But you have to remember that the goal of your approach is to attract a specific woman. If you’re simply talking to the group the whole night, then you’ll minimize your chances of attracting your target.

Whenever you approach a group, you should focus on separating her from her friends. Then once she’s alone you can work on building more attraction and comfort.

The process of isolation is actually fairly simple. First you want to look for genuine signs of attraction. If you don’t see any indicators of interest (IOIs), then you should make a decision. You can either switch your focus to another woman or cut the conversation short and move on.

Now if you notice that you’re target is showing signals, then you know that she is open to being isolated. At this point, you want to direct your attention to her and start building more direct attraction. By now her friends will pick up on the fact you are developing a one-on-one conversation.

When this becomes obvious, say to your target:

“Hey, let me show you something.”

Then turn to her friends and say:

“I’m going to borrow your friend for a while, I promise to bring her back”

Then, hold her hand and take her away. She will probably follow you.

Then, you can show her something in a quieter location. It can be a picture in your camera or an accessory you are carrying. Or you can simply tell her that you want to walk around the venue a little bit and she should join you.

And by acknowledging her friends, you’re also demonstrating that you have respect for her friends and you’re not going to do anything creepy.

Then once you’ve isolated your target, you can do a number of things like build more attraction, establish rapport and initiate physical contact.

Just remember that the best way to make a woman remember you during the initial interaction is to make a lasting impression. And the best way to do that is to get her away from her friends and work on establishing that connection.

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Today, I am going to uncover a great way to tease girls. But many guys I have seen did it wrongly and they ended up making the girl angry instead of horny.

In essence, you want to tease and make fun of a girl. But you have to do it in a way that makes her laugh and want to know more about you. The WRONG way to do is to make her pissed off and made her feel that you are a jerk!

Most guys get teasing wrong because they think it involves ridiculing a girl. They think they’re building attraction by making fun of such things as her looks, or other traits that she might be sensitive about. Unfortunately this type of behavior only ends up pissing off most women.

My advice for teasing is simple. Made your teasing in such a way that she is TRYING TO GET YOU. Make your teasing revolves around that area. Your teasing is done to trip her up and call out the behavior she’s doing to get you, instead of the other way round.

The way you can do this is to steal some of the lines traditionally used by women. For instance, you say something like “You’re trying to take advantage of me,” or “You just want me for my body” whenever she does something to you. Whenever she touches your arm, be it accidentally or with intentions, say something like, “Stop molesting me!” Now these are just examples. Keep in mind that any teasing you do with a woman should be tailored to a specific situation. Your major goal is use this form of humor in a way that’s getting her to laugh while making sure that you’re maintaining your high status.

Therefore, one simple rule to follow is – Tease her, but DON’T INSULT her

Direct your humor at the girl and makes your teasing around it. You see, most of the time women are used to guys kissing their asses. Typically, other men will shower them with compliments in the hopes of getting them into the bedroom. The problem is this behavior becomes very boring and very predictable. You definitely don’t wish to become one of them.

In order to stand out from other guys, tease her in a way where she’s wondering what’s the next thing that’s going to come out of your mouth. You’re different because you’re acting like a high status guy who is a challenge to her. In a way, you’re acting like a jerk. But a jerk that makes her laughs and feels that tingle of sexual excitement.

But teasing never means you act like a complete asshole. So avoid talking about her physical flaws like she is too fat for you or her boobs are too large.

Try to pretend ‘close’ to her, even if you are not really are. Talk to her and tease her like she is your good friend. This is a great way to build rapport and connections, and helps greatly especially if you are in the line of doing sales.

For instance if she’s wearing revealing clothes, you can tell her something like, “Damn you! All the cleavage is very distracting! I can’t concentrate on my work!” And then start a routine about how wearing sexy clothes causes more car accidents.

If a girl mentions something you don’t agree with, say a line like, “That’s it, we’re breaking up.” Then, when she says something you like, say, “Alright… I guess we can go out again. But you’re on probation. One wrong word from you, and it will be over.” Then move your conversation into other topic.

The rule of thumb in teasing is to be playful and warm, not mean.

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Approach anxiety has been a real problem to many guys. Whenever we see a hot girl we like or a business deal we want to close, we have this anxiety which holds us back.

The truth is these anxious feelings can be traced back to early human development. Back then, there was danger in approaching women. If you talked to a female who was attached to another man, you could get smacked over the head with a club.

As you can see, approach anxiety is a normal feeling that we all get.

But the question to ask yourself is,”should you let it control you?”

The answer is NO!

Although approach anxiety is common, you should not let it dominate you. You need to overcome them. Remember the best pick up artists (PUAs) in the world are the guys who overcame these feelings.

Now if you want to overcome your own anxious feelings, then you should follow the same technique which I used eliminate approach anxiety, which is to…

TALK TO EVERY WOMAN YOU MEET!

They do not necessary have to be hot girls or clients you have business reasons with. They can be anyone you meet in your daily activities.

Most guys who want success with women make the mistake of only approaching women during a specific time during the week. The problem is they build up a lot of anxious feelings about initiating conversations with women.

The solution to this problem is pretty easy. Instead of only approaching a girl during your trips to bar or club, you should initiate conversations with the women you encounter throughout the day.

The beauty of this technique is you do not have to worry about trying to pick up these women. Instead you’re using opportunities to put your conversation skills into practice and reduce nervousness. The point I’m trying to make is you can quickly kill your approach anxiety if talking to women becomes second nature.

To get started, all you have to do is initiate conversations with the women you encounter throughout the day.

For instance, here are some girls you can talk to:

- Checkout girls at stores

- Women who sit near you in class

- Any girl who helps you in clothing stores

- Females who work with you

- Women that you encounter on trains and subways

- Any girl waiting on the line with you

Note that you don’t have to use a smooth opener or conversation starter. Just start talking to them in a normal manner.

Remember that if you make it a habit to talk to women everywhere you go, it’ll become second nature to you. Buck my life!

I was pissed off. What is worst is they blocked the whole passageway, making shoppers like me having a hard time to get through. I finally reached the Acer booth, and found this hot, sizzling show girl at the booth. She has dark, long flowing hair and she was wearing such hot shorts that my legs began to shake. Many guys were around her, ogling at her, making her very uncomfortable.

I inched my way towards her. Her eyes caught me and I caught a smile from her. I guessed she find it amusing I was wearing such nice, professional office wear, and have to stained my new shirt with all the sweat from the people around me. When I reached beside her, I whispered to her ear,

“You know something? You are causing a massive jam at this booth. What is more? You are not helping in the sales of the goods as you are catching too much attention on yourself and not the goods.”

She giggled and said, “Well, I thought that is what I am paid to do.”

“Well, if that is your thinking and you are a showgirl in my business, you will suffer so badly,” I replied.

That sentence caught her attention and she said, “Oh… What business are you in?”

I told her about my jewellery company followed by taking out my business card and passing to her. She was shocked to see my position as President and CEO of such a big jewellery company.

“Oh my god.. my mum loved your jewellery. She is a fan of them,” she said.

“Thank you,” I replied. “If your mum needs anything, you can drop by any of my stores and show this card. She will get a huge discount.”

“Oh.. Thank you so much!”

“My pleasure. Now if you don’t mind, I am looking for this model,” I said, taking out the brochure. “Can you tell me where is it?”

She took a look at the brochure, and said, “Oh this model is a very popular model. It is supposed to be sold out yesterday, but I think I have 1 extra one which is not on sale.”

After a fruitful discussion with her, I managed to get her to sell me the last piece at a great discount. I carried the laptop to my car. As I was putting my laptop into my car’s boot, I received a message in my phone.

I took it out and to my surprise, it was from the showgirl whom I just spoke to.

She said, “Hey, my lunch break is in an hour time. Want to meet up?”

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